I was a little confused with the term oyibo, I thought that was only used to reference yt people and akata, ( i despise that term btw) black people. But you meant Oyibo as in African Americana right??

yeah we come in various shapes and sizes -and paradigms, but recently, my Naija brothers are developing a growing disenchantment with the Naija female raised abroad. My cousins in the UK and Europe still go home to shop for wives. Their reason; Naija gals in d UK and North America display a frightenin lack of the basic values that make us African – except a Naija guy who himself has been weathered down culturally, ur hookup with a TYPICAL Naija guy may be more stormy than u anticipate.

I only knw one gal in the US who keeps it real; she has been there for over a decade and she is still so Naija, I tease her with it a lot! But even with her there are slips on expectations and roles in a relationship that the Naija guy would cringe at.

wow i ve written d length of an entire post. okay when next i am in N.America, i’ll organize a seminar for y’all. Meanwhile….